About The Irrelationship Group

The Irrelationship Group was formed to help people achieve optimal relationships in romance, work-life, friendships, and society & culture. We seek, through multiple channels (books, blogs, speaking engagements, workshops, etc.) to provide a framework for understanding dysfunctional patterns of relating with one another we call “Irrelationship”. We seek to be change agents to catalyze recognition of the presence of irrelationship, deepen understanding of irrelationship through educational and training activities as well as via what we call “self-other-help”, and offer tools and processes to allow people to develop and maintain relationships characterized by open and safe communication, lower anxiety, improved intimacy, and sustainable mutuality. We believe that the only effective way to address Irrelationship is together with other people committed to the same goal — which is why we call our approach “Self-Other-Help”.

Who We Are

Daniel Berry, R.N., M.H.A.

Mark B. Borg, Jr., Ph.D. is a community and clinical psychologist and a psychoanalyst practicing in New York City. He is founding partner of The Community Consulting Group, a consulting firm that trains community stakeholders, local governments and other organizations to use psychoanalytic techniques in community rebuilding and revitalization. He is a supervisor of psychotherapy at the William Alanson White Institute and has written extensively about the intersection of psychoanalysis and community crisis intervention. He has published numerous articles and book chapters on community intervention, organizational consultation, psychoanalytic therapy; and on the application of psychoanalytic theory and technique to improve and streamline the process of community crisis intervention.

Daniel Berry, R.N., M.H.A.

Grant H. Brenner, MD is a psychiatrist in private practice in New York City, specializing in treating mood and anxiety disorders and the complex problems arising from developmental childhood trauma. He works from a humanistic and integrative perspective, incorporating evidence-based approaches as well as innovative techniques such as transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) and neurofeedback. He is on the faculty of the Mount Sinai Beth Israel Hospital, Director of Trauma Service at the William Alanson White Institute and a volunteer and Board member of the not-for-profit Disaster Psychiatry Outreach. He is an author and editor of the book Creating Spiritual and Psychological Resilience: Integrating Care in Disaster Relief Work, and has published a number of book chapters and papers.

Daniel Berry, R.N., M.H.A.

Daniel Berry, RN, MHA has practiced as a Registered Nurse in New York City since 1987. Working in in-patient, home care and community settings, his work has taken him into some of the city’s most privileged households as well as some of its most underserved and dangerous public housing projects in Manhattan and the South Bronx. He is currently Assistant Director of Nursing for Risk Management at a public facility serving homeless and undocumented victims of street violence, addiction and traumatic injuries. In 2015 he was invited to serve as a nurse consultant to a United Nations-certified NGO in Afghanistan that promotes community development and addresses women’s and children’s health issues.

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